At Easter Dinner, My Aunt Called My Adopted Kids Strangers-heuh

Easter at my parents’ house always managed to look kinder than it felt.

My mum had set the table as if a photograph might be taken at any moment.

There were floral napkins folded beside the good white plates, the heavy glass bowl she only used when relatives visited, and a roast in the middle of the table that made the whole kitchen smell of sugar, salt and Sunday effort.

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The kettle had clicked off twice before anyone remembered to pour the tea.

Outside, the children were running across the small back garden, shouting over plastic eggs and muddy grass while the adults laughed too loudly indoors.

Through the window, we must have looked like a proper family.

That was always the trick with us.

We knew how to look warm.

My wife, Claire, had been helping since morning.

She had turned up early in a plain cardigan with a bag of rolls under one arm and Easter chocolates under the other.

She had pulled trays from the oven before anything burned, filled my dad’s coffee without being asked, rinsed serving spoons, found extra chairs, wiped the worktop, and put juice in plastic cups before any child thought to ask for it.

Claire loved through doing.

Not loudly.

Not with grand speeches.

She remembered, carried, cleaned, checked, turned up, stayed late and never made a scene about any of it.

We had been married for eight years.

In those eight years, she had behaved more like family than some people at that table ever had.

She had taken my mum to hospital appointments when I could not get out of work.

She had planned birthday meals for cousins who barely remembered to say thank you.

She had sat with my grandmother in the quiet months when everybody else seemed to become mysteriously busy.

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